
Human Trafficking. Something I wasn’t too familiar with until the beginning of summer. Through my job and many other avenues, awareness of it came like waves,it was almost overwhelming. Reading the statistics alone bought complete sadness to my heart.
Human trafficking is the worlds fastest growing criminal industry. Twenty seven million people are enslaved around the world. In London alone it is estimated that about 6,000 foreign nationals are working in off-street prostitution.
What’s worse, is that many people who have been trafficked thought they were being offered a better life, a higher class of living. They are just innocently desperate people looking for a way out, and the men and women who are trafficking them prey on this. Orphans are promised a better life but end up being sold for money. In certain parts of the world families will sell their children just so they can buy luxury goods such as laptops and phones.
These are the harrowing things that were bought to my attention as I sat and watched award -winning documentary Nefarious by organization Exodus Cry.
In opening scenes we were taken to an orphanage in Serbia. Loud violent men woke young girls from their sleep. They were then all forced to stand in a line and take off their clothes as potential “buyers” stood and checked out “the goods”. The girls were examined like cattle, then one was chosen and taken away. The other girls stood and screamed in horror knowing that their friends’ life and dignity had just been snatched.
In Moldova, there is a high orphan rate. Many owners of orphanages tell girls to “go out and have fun”, while the girls are blissfully unaware they are being sold. The sad thing is, orphans are the most targeted because traffickers know that no-one will come looking for them.
Once they are in the hands of their trafficker or pimp, their life is not their own. These stone cold men already have the next two years of the women’s lives planned out. They know where they are going to take them and what kind of labour they will be used for.
In Amsterdam and the Netherlands, where prostitution is legal, many of the women put up facades. They appear comfortable parading around naked in shop windows, but behind closed doors it’s a different story. One brothel owner in the red light district said men order their women “like a pizza”, they tell him what they want and he gives it to them. As he spoke about the goings on in the brothel, the numbness of his emotions were real. He said the girls could get up to 30 customers a night.
Across the other side of the world in Thailand, the sex industry is much different. As well as being sold by their families, women will voluntarily offer themselves to men just to put food on their table. In karaoke bars, western men take advantage of this, their bar receipts at the end of the night can read: “Beer: 4 Baht, Grapes: 5 Baht, Girl: 3 Baht.”
After being made aware of the harsh realties of the sex industry, we heard from the women who were once involved themselves. Many echoing the same thing “we didn’t want to do it!” many of them spoke about how they could divide their mind from reality during sexual activity. Many of them revealed their past and how they were abused as children, making them feel like they were worth nothing and couldn’t be anything else. Being offered money for sex almost gave them their power back. It gave them some kind of dignity because in reality, they hated themselves. They hated the men that had done this to them. But they too had their own issues.
A reformed pimp spoke about all he had done with regret: “I was captive of one thing; she [prostitute] was captive of another.”
But it was a relief to see that all hope wasn’t lost and that these people could find a way out. It was amazing to see how some of them turned their lives around with the help of the many secular and faith-based organisations who are combating trafficking.
Over recent years, there have been a number of positive changes in societies’ approaches to various sex industries. One of the countries that are doing an amazing job is Sweden. They now have a model of legislation that criminalises the purchase of sex, but the not the sale of sex. This enables the women who are trapped to get support and take steps towards a better life.
Yes, sex slavery is rapidly growing and that fact alone can leave people feeling overwhelmed and unable to do anything. But for every person that’s made aware it is another step taken towards bringing this thing to an end. Please support all those involved in whatever way you can, whether it’s through prayer, volunteering or just spreading the word. William Wilberforce puts it like this,
“You can choose to look the other way, but you can never again say that you didn’t know.”
For more information on the Nefarious visit
Nefariousdocumentary.com
This piece was written by a dear friend Nay Davis she has a Big heart, big dreams and a growing love for Jesus and His kingdom is probably the best way to sum up Nay. With a full time career in journalism and a bit of blogging on the side, it’s safe to say she has a clear passion for writing. On her blog you’ll find a cool mix of interviews with up and coming designers, singers, natural haired beauties and more. You can also find personal experiences and testimonies of her Christian walk, and current issues that are affecting us and the society we live in today.
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Kale
Spinach
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Fresh Mint
Cup of water
Squeeze of lemon
Went and picked up my 10k We Own The Night Run Bag. I like it. I love a good canvas bag for gym and throwing all sorts in. It had the run T-shirt in there as well which is bright neon orange. No one is getting lost in Victoria Park with that on. Also strangely enough looks good on all skin tones! Go Nike! My race number d-tag and details about race day was tucked in the goodie bag and a cute little charm bracelet.
So I ditched my NTC live class this week and joint run club. It was hard but in a good way. Hadn’t run in a while. Nearly 2-3 weeks and the race is this weekend. Run Club is cool as the group spurs you on. I am so used to running alone and finding my rhythm comes easier when I am on my own. Running events are totally different. It is good to run in groups and get used to starting with a group and finding your tempo with others around. The start of most races are slow and space is limited, not a clear path a head.
It took me a while to get my stride but I am glad I got a race in there before race day. I was hyped at my 5k time. Really want to get my time for a 5k down to the 20ish minute mark. That would be amazing. Little by little I can get quicker and quicker.
Rosie Huntington-Whiteley attended the amfAR Cinema Against AIDS Gala at the 66th Cannes Film Festival on May 23, 2013.
This would be a great engagement party dress or wedding reception dress. Note to self.
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Food diaries…..
What I have been eating to keep it clean and healthy but still yummy.
Some tips…
Portion control was/is a big lesson for me.
Keep it brown if your going to eat carbs like rice and pasta.
Do NOT skip any meals.
Add a portion of fruit to your breakfast (get in that fruit early)
Put snacks on smack down just say no to extra sugar that you gotta work off. Add snacks that can help when your sweet tooth is raging. Nakd bars are a new favourite banana bread and apple pie are the best flavours in my opinion.
Started off the week on a high. The weekend was chilled but great, went to the Book Q&A from Taiye Salasi. We will get to the Book itself in a minute. I promise. She read an excert from ‘Ghana Must Go’ and it lit me up. I love the way she reads and writes. Goodness it was mesmerising.
Firstly Taiye is stunning. She graced the stage in the most killer hot pink fuchsia skyscraper shoes and just owned it. Ok I could go on but she may think that I want to marry her and that voice of hers.
The exert. She flicked to a few pages in and read a conversation that was happening between one of the main characters who is African (Nigerian and Ghanian) and the Father of the women he is dating who is of American-Chinese origin. The Father is very up front on his views of Africa and African people. Some things are what he observed and others were just assumptions from his observations. The conversation is captured brilliantly. I have had this discussion before in different ways with different people but with the same under lying tensions.
I will not lie I have damn near stalked this women through reading any newspaper clipping she has online and all recent interviews. Blame the Guardian online for fuelling this! The Q&A confirmed what my stalker side already knew lol, that Taiye is interesting, funny, and engaging.
London was the first stop on her book tour after was Germany a few other places in Europe. She openly said that she was nervous about what the reviews would be when it was released in Africa in late July.
She was very honest about her creative processes. I asked her what would she have done differently from what she knows now as a published writer. She asked “if it was for a personal question?”, to which I replied “maybe”. She then reeled off her wisdom to me or someone like me as she phrased it. She would never advise to have seven people in your first book. She felt like she was going crazy with all the different characters that she had and learning how to convey their story through out.
She also shared that you will feel like there is nothing left, no more to the story. That the story is finished but there is more. You have to push through those times and look for inspiration. After Taiye sold the first 100 pages she stopped writing for six months. Not on purpose but it left her. Her inspiration came from taking long walks and sitting in a church near her home in Rome. If this didn’t work Pressco and shoe shopping would come into play. Finally she shared that I should imagine I am in a car and it is snowing. I have my lights on and can only see as far as the lights in front on me. That is how I should write. Little by little the full story will be revealed. I was so thankful that I got to go to her talk. It was what my little writers heart needed.
I am passed the half way mark of her book. Still love the layers that are being revealed. I am in love with some of the conversations between the characters. They are just perfect. Review coming soon.
I won a spot (this week) to run the @nikeuk @elleuk #weownthenight #10k! Was so Pumped!!! Then it hit me I hadn’t ran in a minute. Been doing lots of #weight stuff. Hummmm switched my NTL class and joined #run club!
Ran with #Nike #RunClub on Thursday and was hyped at my 5k time after not running for 2wks and just #circuit training.
My #legs felt stronger and that has to be because of the #weights stuff. The lesson here is to train for life. All training helps.
Anyway tonight imma own my #race and do it well.
Come down and support its at Vicky Park innit! #Fun #run
#weownthenight #girls #runthisTown #runYourRace #stayInYourLane #EnjoyTheWholeRace #YourDoingIt so #BigUpYourChest #TeamNoExcuses
Nails nails nails!
New shades and new shape. I was wearing my nails in an oval shape for a while now and wanted something different. Me and nail technician worked this cute shape. So now they are a little longer and square at the tip. I love em’
I choose colour based on my mood. I don’t care about trends and what is the colour of the moment. I have a ton of different shades at home that I like any season. As it has been a little grey weather wise here in London I have opted for some bolder brighter shades. It makes me happy!
Laziness is the enemy of productivity. If we were lazy, there is no way we could accomplish meaningful things. We may procrastinate doing things, or – even if we do them – we may do them only half-heartedly. There is no way we can produce high-quality results that way.
So we need to overcome laziness. While I can’t say that I’ve been completely successful in overcoming it, I’m happy with my progress. Here are 16 tips I find useful to overcome laziness:
1. Exercise
You could feel lazy if you do not have enough energy to do your activities. Exercising is a good way to increase your energy level so that you feel energized and alert throughout day.
2. Have a good rest
Not having enough rest could also make you lazy. How can you feel enthusiastic if you are sleepy? So make sure that you have good rest.
3. Set a minimum time limit to get started
The most difficult thing is to get started – the rest will be easier. So set a small amount of time, like 15 minutes or even 5 minutes, and decide to work on the task until the time is up. After that, it would be easier to decide to continue.
4. Create a sense of urgency
This is among the most effective ways to defeat laziness. If you have a sense of urgency, it will be much easier to get up and do what you need to do. One way to create a sense of urgency is by setting a deadline. You can read more about it on my article about sense of urgency.
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